D180 -- Around the world in (100 and) 80 days
14 weeks later, here it is.... our final blog entry!
Our last night was spent at the London GatwickMeridien, so for once we arrived at the airport check in with plenty of time to spare. I got worried when one of the airline staff started asking us really, really detailed security questions - we're talking WAY beyond the usual "has anyone given you a package/did you pack your own luggage?" After several minutes of this I finally had to ask her if these questions were typical or whether there was a specific threat of which we should be aware. She said no, that since September 11 that's the way it always goes on flights to the US. It's a good thing, too, as just over a month later that hijaking plot was uncovered in London...
After the exhaustive questions we checked in and walked to our gate, where we got some fellow passengers to snap a photo of us. They must have thought we're overly sentimental - little did they know this was a big flight for us. We would be flying the last miles in our 66,547 mile trip.
With all those frequent flier miles Thomas earned schlepping across the US for Baron and Budd, we were able to fly business one last time. Nothing but coach in our future now, so we really savored the experience. Often before take-off buisiness passengers are offered orange juice or champagne. Our ritual was to get one of each and mix up a couple of mimosas. Thomas always mixed because he's better at not spilling. (Those damn dance lessons didn't teach me a thing!) So, we shared one last round of mimosas, making a toast to 6 months of adventures. After that, we feasted (on what I can't remember) and then sacked out on on the most incredible British Airways seats that recline 180 degrees. I've never slept so well on a plane!
Back on US soil, one of the first things we saw after we entered DFW was a "Welcome Home" banner at immigration. Nice touch, immigration people! I almost got a little misty - it really was good to be back home. As much as I disagree with and am downright disgusted by the actions and attitudes of some of my elected officials and fellow citizens, I do love this country and feel beyond blessed to have been born here. For example, our travels have given me a greater appreciation for the fact that almost all of us have potable drinking water, that our public schools are relatively free from religion, and that we have the right to openly criticize our government without suffering any violent repercussions (being branded unpatriotic doesn't count as violent).
That welcome home sign prompted lots of affection for home, but didn't stop Thomas from asking me, "Should we go back upstairs to the American Airlines ticketing desk? We've got enough miles left for one more flight!" We looked at one another and shared a brief "Thelma and Louise moment," but decided that we should not make a run for it. Our 6-month Round-the-World trip was officially over.
My father-in-law was there to greet us when we emerged from customs, and he took us home to the family where we all enjoyed Thomas' favorite - his mom's enchiladas. Now that's a homecoming!
Since we've been back we've readjusted to life in the states. The enormity of our homes, our automobiles, food portions, and shopping venues does not shock us much anymore. We are again completely accustomed to driving on the left side of the car on the right side of the road. We've started watching TV again, have enjoyed spending lots of time with family and friends, and even took a trip to New Mexico to go hiking with the dogs. Thomas has signed on for some contract work with his old firm, and I've started work with the Texas Department of State Health Services. We're looking for a house - and struggling to find a nice one that's affordable for a couple that spent a good chunk of their savings globe trotting. Oh well - it was worth it.
I can't believe how incredibly fortunate we are to have had such an amazing journey. We learned so much about this big world and met so many wonderful people who took us into their homes and welcomed us as Americans and as fellow human beings. It's easy here in our relatively geographically and culturally isolated country to forget that there are so many other countries on this planet filled with people who have many of the same struggles and hopes that we do. What goes on there is just as important as what goes on here, but it's hard to take it all in, so I've often just focused on the here. I am struggling with that, but I am hoping that over the long haul, this experience will help me look beyond our borders more often and more meaningfully than I did a year ago.
I am glad to be back and "settling down" but I must admit that every time I see pictures of Italy, or hear about loved ones traveling to places like New Zealand or Vietnam, my heart hurts a little. I am sad that I will probably never again see most of the people we met along the way, that we may never again visit the places we travelled, and that I may once again become consumed with materialistic concerns (Aren't those flat-screen HDTVs nice! I can't wait to visit the Restoration Hardware outlet in San Marcos!). I'll try to fight those consumer urges and keep an eye on what's going on elsewhere and what really matters in life. We'll see how it goes.
Thanks to all of you for reading. It was so much fun for us to get to share our experiences this way. Special thanks to Heidi for encouraging/affectionately nagging us to finish it up.
Love,
Elva (and Thomas, too!)